Well I have a friend that has been dating this guy for a couple months and she seems so in love with him. but the problem is he is already in a committed relationship. and he always tells her that he loves her and he wants to be with her but he's not always there when she needs him. all the sneaking around and the private conversations are starting to get to her. He never takes her out anywhere but he takes care of her as far as bills and whatever she wants. my friend is starting to fall deeper for him but she really doesn't know how to deal with this difficult situation. Him and her have talked about children but nothing about marriage or anything. He really is very good to her and sweet at times. Makes her happy whenever he's around.He wants her to move in with him and his significant other but of course she's not sure about this because she wants to have him to herself. I guess you can say he wants his cake and eat it too. what should she do? should she continue with this relationship and see where it goes or should she not even waste her time? I've tried to give my opinion on this but maybe she needs to hear it from someone else.