Originally Posted by
Rowen
I agree with Fla, but what really irks me is what is his family situation that he can't marry you? That would send up a red flag for me, at least.
However, if you two are in a long term, I would say that if your kids feel comfortable around him, why not do something that you want for yourself? I mean, you're 39, and you've dedicated years to your children. While I'm NOT saying that you should dump them off in Thailand to go to school, I am saying that you deserve a balance of family life and intimate life. They'd want you to find love again because, sadly, one day they will be off to their own lives. Don't put your life on hold; do what you want to do without forgetting your kids.