So I had been going out with this girl for about 2 and a half years and everything was great and normal. We had gotten together in college and I had transferred to another college about a year and half into the relationship and it was still good. At this 2 and half year mark, it was her turn to transfer. So we would be going to different colleges, but less than an hour away. (Living on campus) However, a few weeks before she left for college, she broke up with me over the phone saying that she didn't feel like she would have time for a relationship and that she wanted to try new things and experiment. In my mind, I was completely heartbroken and mad so I tried to get her back and convince her we could work it out with the distance, but she insisted on breaking up. A few month went by and we still texted as friends and stuff and hung out every once in a while. The problem is, we have been hanging out almost every week and talking and she acts like we are still in a relationship when we arent. She kisses me and hugs me and does everything a normal couple would do. Today we hung out during spring break and she acted the same way. So i asked her what her mindset was with "us" and she said she isnt ready for a relationship and she doesnt have time. I am completely confused and I feel like i have been led on for the past few months. I feel really bad shutting her out of my life because I still have feelings for her and she said she still likes me and wants to be with me. But she doesnt want a relationship ? I feel like she wants the benefits and feeling of a relationship without one. And when I bring up bf and gf again, she talks about "Why does the title even matter if everything is fine regardless?"
But to me, everything isn't fine. Any thoughts ?