I'm kind of seeing a woman, but it's very early on. We have only gone on two official dates but we have talked a lot and we both have similar preferences in sex. Our first date was before she went on vacation for a week. While she was on vacation she slept with a guy, and I'm not upset about that because at that point we were only one date in, right? And to be honest about it while she was gone I did some hooking up of my own. I thought I'd just kinda let her go, but she contacted me and wanted to go out again. When we go out we have a great time, and I think I'd like to have her as a girlfriend. Yes, I know, the hooking up would have to stop, but that goes for her too.
At the close of date number two, I asked her where we stood because I told her I wanted to be in a relationship with her but I didn't want to force it. She agreed, and said she wanted to be in a relationship too but that we needed a few more dates to feel each other out and really get to know each other. All that is fine in my book, we're both old enough to know what we want and to know ya just can't force a relationship and expect it to actually work.
But my question is the following, and requires some speculation. I don't think she knows that I know she hooked up on vacation, but it's pretty obvious. She posted couple pics to her own facebook, which I saw and figured they had hooked up. But also, on date number two one of her friends slipped and said it outright. So when I asked her about us, I get a kinda wait-and-see response, and again, I don't mind that she hooked up on vacation but I'm confused by her inconsistency. She had no problem having sex with some random guy who was frankly just a good time to her, so is she making me wait because maybe she really respects me and wants a real relationship...or is she just playing games...keeping me around as date insurance? We are both pretty comfortable sexually, but suddenly she's being more reserved than I would have expected. On date number 2 we stayed up until 5am and cuddled under a blanket, so I can't say she's being a tease yet but is her going slow a good, get to know you because I really like you thing or a cruel cock tease thing?