Further to above: Here is the link to the other poster who is/was also in a relationship with an Indian man. I got rather abrupt with her when you refused to take into consideration anything other then her own hope.
http://www.loveforum.net/threads/74830-Trying-hard-to-understand-Indian-culture-in-my-relationship
BTW: In case the link doesn't work it's in the Love Advice Sub-forum. (I've had trouble with cut and pasting links before, unfortunately).
Last edited by Wakeup; 04-04-13 at 02:56 AM.
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