Originally Posted by
LittleFox
Here is the truth:
I never start the conversation first. As a guy, don't be put off with that. How you can say if she's interested in talking with you? Just by how the converstaion goes, how you feel.. is it interesting for YOU? or you just want to impress HER? Find what YOU like, how YOU like.
It's ok for me that guys are the ones who write first. Those who don't just fall back.
But why I chose one over another?
Because he was HONEST with me, how he feels about me, at the same time being light, funny, caring, not pushy or plain.
You should do the same. Tease her a bit, see the response, be playful. It's not about who writes first. If you feel it's going well, there is no reason for you to not write first. If you feel tired, drop it.
good luck