Traveller, I'm sorry your thread has been derailed with bickering between members. It would be nice if people could focus on you instead of focusing on their personal agendas.
My advice: I also think you shouldn't tell your wife. Consider it a wakeup call and make some drastic changes instead.
You say that you're travelling to ensure the financial security of your family....however, this seems to be at the cost of your family's emotional security. You know, I'd rather be poor and with my husband there by my side than wealthy and him absent most of the time.
I suggest you resign from this position and get yourself back home with your family.
Last edited by basilandthyme; 09-04-13 at 06:38 AM.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.