Yes I am a women....a woman that listens to men...I'm a woman that understands. I didn't say a man will cheat at the drop of a hat, THAT is stereotyping. I said if the opportunity "STRONGLY" presents itself, meaning emtional bonding like wake up has mentioned, loneliness, hurt ego, things that increases the temptation as well has the sex drive. The combination is explained right in the OP statment "it all went out the window". The possablility can present itself more than you think. Here in this thread is the proof....it happened to this man.