Hi. I am a 29 years old single girl. I wish to find someone for a serious relationship and marriage. My last boyfriends didn't ask me for marriage and that was the reason I ended with them. One of them was so handsome but a jerk! Now I am looking for someone but people say I am too picky. They suggest me some guys but not my type. Sometimes I don’t like their manner or style or look,… I wonder if they are right and I’m too picky or not.
People say I myself have an average look, but I feel I am good enough to deserve someone I like. I want someone who attracts me by his appearance and his behavior but those guys my friend suggest me usually aren't attractive for me specially their look. I like tall guys (no offence, just a personal preference) but they all suggest me short and really short ones. I certainly have some personality/manner criteria too. And I know that look isn’t everything. So I myself don’t think that I’m too choosy, but my friends think so I myself find some people attractive around me but they don’t show interest in me. I feel so desperate, how I cannot find someone with a mutual attraction and aimed for marriage!
Am I too picky? If you think so, what can I do to feel better with people who are not attracting me? How can I help myself to change my standards, should I do that?
how can I make myself accept dating someone whom I don’t like? When you don’t like somebody you don’t enjoy being around him, it doesn’t make you happy
Thanks for any help