Hello everyone! I'm new to the forum, hi!
I have a problem, with which I really need some guidance. There's a Moldavian singer I'm really interested in, Arsenie Todiraș. He's 29 and I'm 15. I like singing (love it! I have, all my life) and have been told I'm not too bad at it. I know I'm smart and hardworking, since I get straight 10's in school (I am working to study in Romania so I can meet him!) I'm not a supermodel but I'm not ugly either. I know how to eat healthy and take care of my body. I'm honest, modest (I really do not like to show too much skin) and have never had a boyfriend before, since I don't see the point in a non-permanent relationship, but still I know that I would never, ever betray any boyfriend I might eventually have. I am very responsible too, and no one has to tell me to do what I must do. I live by the motto, "I do what I must...because I can."
I've only talked to Mr. Todiraș once, on his chat, but he was extremely friendly and not an obnoxious snob like one other VIP to whom I once talked. He's very smart and speaks many languages (I myself speak English and Spanish, both of which he knows, and am learning his native tongue, Romanian.) I can be stubborn, but normally I am shy and self conscious around people I don't know very well. As you can see, I am a big dreamer. I must confess that I am far more confident in my mental abilities than my physical attractiveness, and must learn how to look well (you know, makeup, hair and stuff).
I would do almost anything to meet this man in person. What little I've read of his personality intrigues me; he sings wonderfully and he is very handsome!
I have liked guys before, but it has never been like this. I truly love him, I know that I do. I saw that he described the perfect girl as 'sexy, beautiful, sweet and compassionate'. I know that I am sweet and compassionate. Not so sure about 'sexy and beautiful', but I guess I can take care of that easily enough, just by bettering my appearance a bit while remaining myself.
What do you think? Do I stand any chance at all with him, assuming I do get the scholarship and go to Romania? How can I increase my chances? I have had many people tell me that I am a very unique and likeable person. I tend to be a bit too loud and to make stupid jokes at times; I definitely need to curb that. Other than that, what can I do? Am I completely out of my mind?
Honest, serious answers only please! I am not joking, this is extremely important to me. My eternal gratitude to the kind soul who can answer me!
Thank you!
"Becky".