funny topic but it's annoying me. she dumped me 2.5 months ago bc long sorry short I acted single aroun her, like she wasnt my girlfriend and she got tired of not feeling important. since then we only wen no contact for 2.5 weeks about 2 weeks ago and we've been texting since. before that she acted like she still cared but basically said she doesn't know if she could dare me again with the fear I'd still act the same, we dated over a year by the way.
I'm basically detached from the breakup, I'm not depressed over it and know I don't need her but I do miss her and miss being with and around her, so I brought up getting drinks one might, or go to Atlantic city, nothing serious. since we've been texting she will talk but is very straight forward and VERY bitchy, so I just keep my temper and be patient. she did agree that we could hang out but was very reluctant to agree and it took a couple conversations for her to agree. things she's said was "why do you want to hang out all of a sudden but not before we stopped talking," and "you only want to hang out bc Im friends with Tom (I'll get to that)" and mentions of wanting to hang out but me not having feelings or something like that, it's all over what she says.
the Tom thing, he's basically a dirtbag she started being friends with and hanging out with who is a drug addict and womanizing bad person basically. she claims they're just friends and she would never see him as more than that and wouldn't ever sleep with him etc, they just go to parties with other friends. I don't think he has anything to do with how she's acting but maybe he does?
I just want to grasp why she would be ok hanging out with me, even said she'd stay at my house if she were drunk and couldn't drive, but is always so damn mean and bitchy? I gave her times to say it but she'll never just come out and tell me to move on, not once.