Sugar's bad for you, dude. Seriously bad for you.
'course, so is smoking and drinking, and I do both. Take from this what you will.
Sugar's bad for you, dude. Seriously bad for you.
'course, so is smoking and drinking, and I do both. Take from this what you will.
Just don't go confusing sex and love. B/c this is new to you, you are apt to confuse the two. Treat her like an interesting but not very compelling beach book. Saavy?
Hold on to your heart, no matter how awesome she seems. She is leaving before you start. That said, I have heard of people getting back together years later, b/c they kept it light at the time. Beware - getting clingy and needy will drive her away forever. Trust me on this: been there, done that one too. My ex (a few ago, not the last one) is a lawyer. Never married; in my part of the world even. But I never forgot how clingy he got at the end. It leaves an impression, LR.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Ohhhhhhhhhhh what kind?
Well, before I message her, I just wanted to ask: How do I also include something re: her leaving? Obviously that's important to her and it would be good to include something about it in my response, besides the invite?
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
Who cares about her leaving....just ask her out....you are getting too far ahead of yourself. Talk about it on the date silly.
Lol, yeah I am planning on that. But in my message doing so, I still want to include her, as in, show that I really read the message and think it's awesome that she's going abroad to study for a few months. Question is; HOW?
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
"That's really cool that you are going abroad to study. I'm totally down with just hanging and having fun while you're here. Would you like to meet over coffee?" (or whatever, blah blah blah).
You're still overthinking it. Just DO IT.
Maybe I'm underthinking it. Maybe my mind isn't wired to talk to girls, except in platonic or Friend Zone'ing manners...Maybe if I slap myself real good or fall while ice-skating one day it'll shuffle the synapses in my mind to work better when dealing with girls.
But yeah, I'll re-phrase that (hopefully not disastrously) so I can be sure you're not ghost-writing.
Last edited by Love'sReject; 12-04-13 at 11:50 AM.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
Synapses grow connections while doing new activities. FACT
To get better at it, you need to practice it.
LR you better not f uck this one up!
Pressure? Oh crap, I'm going to **** up for sure now. Besides, reading her profile...she's a SORORITY chick! Maybe I should hope she doesn't accept; otherwise, she might expect me to be loud, rambunctious and friendly with every damn person, a good dancer, an uber wit and a complete yuppie! I'm none of those things!
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
Last edited by IndiReloaded; 12-04-13 at 02:56 PM.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh
Actually, I had no idea you went to school here.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.