What do you think? Will such a relationship last?
What do you think? Will such a relationship last?
Don't let anyone tell you it can't; those who try to will be relying on logic and as we all know, logic has no basis in love/relationships.
Because we have to chase him. Because he's the hero Gotham deserves, but not the one it needs right now. So we'll hunt him. Because he can take it. Because he's not our hero. He's a silent guardian, a watchful protector. A dark knight.
It depends on the two people involved. Just like it does with two extroverts or, an extrovert and an introvert.
“The willingness to accept responsibility for one’s own life is the source from which self-respect springs.” ~Joan Didion
Introverts tend to keeps their thoughts and feelings to themselves. I think if both people in a relationship are introverts, they need to be very careful about communication so that misunderstandings don't happen too often.
Introverts, or internal processors, tend to think about a problem, come up with a solution, and then share that solution.
Extroverts, or external processors, tend to verbalize their thoughts about a problem, process possible solutions and talk it through until they select a way to handle the problem.
I know this is a simplistic explanation, but those are the basics. I agree with all the wise responses above......There are no rules, unless someone's external processing of talking about potential options for a solution would drive you nuts. But you are not in that situation. It is important that you two don't get stuck in your own internal processes - you have to share the solutions you come up with, and settle on one of them. Ann
Ann
I'm an introvert and I share a problem. Hubby is the extrovert and figures problems out in his own head.
My understanding of introvert/extrovert is more about socialising. The introvert recharges his batteries by being alone and peaceful. The extrovert recharges by going out with friends and having fun.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.
Yes, it can work; it depends on the people involved. Although, there can be limited capacity for growth if you don't challenge each other to socialize, be more emotionally open and communicative etc. But then, this might suit both of you and you might find that life is simply more harmonious when you're with someone more like you.