Originally Posted by
toknow
Hmn...I do not agree with anyone here. The past, though not always, can be good indication of the future. History does tend to repeat itself. 4 people just in college is not a small number for a girl - one dude per year. I say for a girl, because girls are naturally supposed to be less promiscuous than guys, if anything, because the outcome of getting pregnant for a girl caries a heavier toll.
I don't know much about your relationship, but you have a good reason to question this. A guy's worst nightmare is ending up with a "slut". Guys will have sex with a girl like that, they will respond to her, but no guy has respect for a girl like that.
I'm not saying she is like this, but if she is, the ramifications of her being like that at the least spell the end of your relationship. You have to really think about this.
Huge generalisations you're making there.
If it's true that a guy's worst nightmare is ending up with a 'slut', why was my husband so happy with me...despite me having had about 15 partners by the time I was 24? And why does he respect me? Oh - and I should add that our 20 year union was the result of a one night stand - so it's not like I pretended to be something I wasn't. And he has very high self esteem....more so than many men I've known.
Please explain
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.