So, I've been with my boyfriend for 7 months, before we started dating we talked about me taking a room in his apartment, and I moved in a month after we started dating. I've never really liked it here and am moving out. In the meantime we will be staying in his room to save money and because there's someone else who needs the room. The plan is for just a month. My problem is that I feel like my boyfriend doesn't give me affection of the type that I need, that being physical affection. Sure he'll cook and does drive me to work most of the time, but I need physical affection. What's more is that we both have completely different approaches to argument resolution, and I tend to feel that he's lecturing me and trying to teach me a lesson when we fight, I've brought this up which resulted in him yelling "learn something." He also doesn't have respect for the issues of my past, he has behaviors that trigger things for me, like demanding an apology when he knows that my uncle used to pull my hair and not stop until I would apologize for something. No he's not pulling my hair but being demanded to apologize for something, that when he does the same thing he gives justifications for and therefore bypasses an apology.
Now I know we haven't been together that long, but I have asked him to go to therapy with me, he says that I need to go to individual therapy (something I am doing) and that will make things better. I point out to him that this is him not taking any responsibility for our relationship dynamics since we both need to work on it and he still refuses to work on it in such a way together.
It's so weird, living in the same room and feeling like this man, no matter how much I love him, is never going to give me the things I need. But it also makes me resentful that I do give him what he needs.
I'm not sure how to navigate the next month and a half until I'm supposed to move out, and I don't want to break up with him before I do that but it feels like lying to both of us if I fake it. I'm just really afraid because when I mention our compatibility problems he talks like he's threatening to kick me out. I just need help and support, please.