In Love in a Month?

[HeartIsAching]

So is that a no?

[pcmaster]

Well for me one month was enought to realise the world will never be the same again. So one month wont be enought to reach the peak of your life but enought to change lifes forever.

[HeartIsAching]

You keep wrigglin', but you're not getting off the hook.

[pcmaster]

Depends on age for about 20 year old one month is enought with like 3-4 dates a week. Talking from my expierience.

Yes one month is enought to fell in love.

[Wakeup]

yea, one month is enough to fall in lust and enjoy the limerence.

[pcmaster]

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Limerence

Nevertheless Tennov stresses that 'the most consistent result of limerence is mating, not merely sexual interaction but also commitment'

[Wakeup]

There wasn't much commitment in that 8 week thing you described.

[pcmaster]

Because it wasnt limerence but love

[Wakeup]

No dear. It was lust, but you're entitled to think what you want, you're just not convincing me (or many others either) that is was what YOU think it was.

[Kromat83]

thinking about my last one, it was just infatuation after all, we were both caught in the moment and it lasted one month, but if one person doesn't feel something long term, then it wasn't meant to be.

I thought I was in love too, but you need to go through obstacles,
compassion, remorse, acceptance, and have been together for a long time to real know.

The initial comfort is there, that is why the feelings are so strong,
but in order for there to be love, you need to see different sides
of that person, and if they truly are there for you, with the good and the bad.

[Saga]

Thanks for your responses. I suppose I should add that I'm a virgin and he knows this and knows it'll be a while before that happens, haha. However, we're both very sexual people and get along great in that area. He's told me that it's not just about sex for him and that he really feels a connection with me, and that I make him feel like the happiest guy in the world.

[pcmaster]

Good luck with loosing virginity.

[Kromat83]

I had sex with my previous, but regretting it now, since she wasn't the one for me, when I thought she was.

He has strong feelings for you, so of course he is going to say that, but if you still don't feel that way, tell him to slow down and just enjoy the moments you both have.