Normal to have more guy friends than girls?

[itsmyd3stiny]

Hi everyone!

Is it normal for my girlfriend to have more guy friends than girls?

And if I find it awkward when she messages guys while next to me, am I being insecure? Please advise.. =(

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[basilandthyme]

I hate the word 'normal'. Let's just say that yes, some women do have more guy friends than girls.

Some boyfriends would be OK with it and others won't. What you do from here is really up to your own comfort levels. I doubt many would hold it against you if you're not comfortable and decide to move on.

[itsmyd3stiny]

If I leave wouldn't that make me look unreasonable? I did speak to her about this and they're only friends.. Not like she's cheating on me or anything..

Maybe I just gotta get used to it..

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[Immaisback]

You're right to be concerned bro. Your woman shouldn't be texting other bros while your sitting there. Sounds like she's taking the piss a little and you have to set a few boundaries. Rest assured that all these so called male "friends" will be after pumping her, unless they are fags of course, and you don't really want your woman hanging out with gays, because of aids and stuff.

Best thing to do is confront her in a firm but fair tone, making clear that you wont put up with anymore of this pish. If she reacts angrily, then she is probably already sleeping with one, or more of them. It's best you find out early before you waste any money on buying her a cat or a new I-phone. There's rarely any smoke without fire in these situations.

[itsmyd3stiny]

These are only our assumption.. I haven't got a chance to see the convo that they're having. I want to trust her, but I don't know how to ask to see what the messages are.

Her claim was that she messages them because they are friends. Usual friend convo. How's it going etc.

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