+ Follow This Topic
Results 1 to 5 of 5

Thread: What does it mean when a girl "repects your opinion"?

  1. #1
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Peoria, Arizona
    Posts
    27

    What does it mean when a girl "repects your opinion"?

    I have a small situation with a girl; in short, I fell for her after knowing her for a while, she had a boyfriend, I expressed my feelings and she returned them to some degree. She broke up with him, spent the night the day after (Rebound, I know. And no, no sex, just sleeping together), and she has since gone back to the boyfriend. She and I had a long talk the other night, and I basically told her I needed to move on and that I needed to treat her more like an acquaintance than a friend to do so. Anyway, she's said more than once that she values my opinion on everything, especially her, to the point where she comes into work without needing to (I work with her) in her casual clothes in hopes that I would see her. We've decided that not talking is the best solution, she doesn't want anything less than a friend, but I want more than that. We've done this before time and time again, no talking, back to talking without the awkwardness, as if nothing happened. The same reasoning comes up from her "I value your opinion too much", and she herself doesn't know why. What does that mean? I've never had anyone say that to me. It kinda sounds bad though, doesn't it? Hell, what do I know? I'm a dude. Help ladies?

  2. #2
    Join Date
    Feb 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Bangladesh
    Posts
    6
    It means she trust your opinion and she is somehow believe you and a strong positives sites form her bottom of mind working for you.

  3. #3
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Peoria, Arizona
    Posts
    27
    I can understand that, but to the point to where she and I come back time and time again to each other? Even after she understands what I want and I understand (for the most part) what she wants and doesn't want? I dunno, can it really be that simple of an answer?

  4. #4
    Join Date
    May 2010
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Latvia
    Posts
    5,054
    That means she respects you. Womens tend to respect man who dont sleep with them using moment of the weakness. She may respect you like a older brother or gay friend. Like someone who cares about her and talks with her from the heart. Basicaly forget about her cause she made her choice and back with BF now but your feelings are too strong to be just friends and you are third wheel anyway. Might aswell dont lose time and find a single girl who wont use you as rebound.
    Doubt kills more dreams than failure ever will

  5. #5
    Join Date
    Apr 2013
    Gender
    Male
    Location
    Peoria, Arizona
    Posts
    27
    Quote Originally Posted by pcmaster View Post
    That means she respects you. Womens tend to respect man who dont sleep with them using moment of the weakness. She may respect you like a older brother or gay friend. Like someone who cares about her and talks with her from the heart. Basicaly forget about her cause she made her choice and back with BF now but your feelings are too strong to be just friends and you are third wheel anyway. Might aswell dont lose time and find a single girl who wont use you as rebound.
    Well that's definitely not good news at all.

Similar Threads

  1. Replies: 16
    Last Post: 30-10-12, 02:39 AM
  2. Your opinion on the whole "space" thing.
    By tezastone in forum Love Advice forum
    Replies: 2
    Last Post: 05-03-12, 05:32 AM
  3. Honest female opinion on "Clingy"?
    By AlexD in forum Ask a Female Forum
    Replies: 3
    Last Post: 01-03-12, 09:56 AM
  4. The "slutty" vs "innocent" girl stereotype
    By zepplica in forum Ask a Male Forum
    Replies: 43
    Last Post: 13-05-09, 05:17 PM
  5. Can't a "good girl" like "bad things" and that be ok?
    By jslaughter in forum Intimate Forum
    Replies: 25
    Last Post: 30-05-04, 02:12 PM

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •