I find myself pretty attracted to guy who seems to be a bit introverted and a little on the shy side. My instincts tell me that he is attracted to me as well. I've known him for almost a year (we work together, but on different floors and in different departments). For the last several months, he has done the following:
- When I first met him, I would catch him looking at me. Whenever I looked over at him, he would look away.
- He seems to be where I am, even if he has no reason to be there. And sometimes he'll "accidentally" bump into me.
- He always offers to help me with anything I need.
- He defends me to others.
- He has befriended my friends.
- If he doesn't see me for a whole day, he'll say something like "It seems like I haven't seen you in forever".
- And here recently, he has started to let me catch him looking at me and then holding my gaze for a few seconds before looking away.
We have been out a couple times in a group of people. He never leaves my side and always buys my dinner and drinks. His friends were even joking with me about being his favorite co-worker. He has taken my hand to guide me through big crowds and has put his hand on my back a couple times, but besides that there has been no physical contact.
I want to try and hang out with him, just the two of us though. I have asked a couple times, but he already had something he had to do (which I verified was the truth). When he tells me he can't, he says that he wished that he could. He has never been the one to ask me though.
I know that he has dated other girls, so it's not like this is his first time. And if it was the fact that we work together, I would think he wouldn't have acted the way he did when we were out with others. I have given him every green light I can think of without just coming out and telling him, but he still won't ask.
What's a girl to do??? Am I crazy for thinking that he likes me?