Hi ladies, I am a guy 23 years of age and I am in r/shp that has span now 4 years. I met this girl and loved her so much. She had a broken past (no real family) and a lot of pain from her previous lover. I wanted to change her life..show her that she is special and can trust me with her heart forever! Yes I was that serious because I had never felt anything like that with a girl. It got serous and we began to see the future together. I got offers to go and further my education abroad and after i considered my relationship with her and how much she needed me I decided to stay. I began distance learning as a solution and God blessed me with a well paying job in a reputable institution. As I mentioned above, she had a broken past and I took it upon me to even sponsor her future and career studies.
Today our road has been long and we had great times together..We have been living 200miles apart for 2 years as I will be at work and her at school. There are times i found messages from another guy on her fone when i visited. it broke me but I confronted her and she promised never again! When I am angry I get short in words.
Throughout our r/ship it hasn't been smooth all the times but there were moments she'd emotionally withdraw from me.. like now! I fear she is cheating because what she loved to do with me (staying late chatting,, or even just chatting, visiting me frequently or nagging me 2[which i loved]) is no longer there. I got fed up and hacked her email and found out that she has a thing for someone and she achieved a message reply on an inquiry about the guy with a friend
I feel like I have done a lot and sacrificed a lot to even get her where she is in her life. As I am trying to talk about it she's not taking me seriously. To be honest i love her deeply and don't understand why she'd do that to me after all did
Please guys help me out here!!!