Sex after 3 months of delivery.

**Divya_in** · 03-05-13, 02:59 AM

I had a normal delivery and my girl baby is now 3 months old. I'm breastfeeding her and advised to do for a 4 more months atleast. I resumed my sex life few days back.Now everytime when my husband have intercourse with me, he has the habit of squeezing and sucking my breasts and nipples during sex. As i'm nursing my child, will the sex with my husband affects my breastfeeding? As he insists, shall i breastfeed him? Will the milk be sufficient for both the child and husband? Do i need to restrict him for it? Does breastfeeding baby is safe contraceptive method?I am still to get my periods.

**Wakeup** · 03-05-13, 03:17 AM

Originally Posted by Divya_in

I had a normal delivery and my girl baby is now 3 months old. I'm breastfeeding her and advised to do for a 4 more months atleast.

Cool, congratulations on your new baby girl

I resumed my sex life few days back.Now everytime when my husband have intercourse with me, he has the habit of squeezing and sucking my breasts and nipples during sex. As i'm nursing my child, will the sex with my husband affects my breastfeeding?

No, the more you breast feed (regardless of who you are feeding) the more milk you produce. Just don't let him do it just before the baby is due to be fed or she may come up dry

As he insists, shall i breastfeed him?

NOT IF YOU DON'T LIKE HIM DOING IT, no you shouldn't.

Will the milk be sufficient for both the child and husband?

Yes, but his fetish is disturbing, to me anyway.

Do i need to restrict him for it?

Yes, if you don't like him doing it. No if you don't mind it. Your call.

Does breastfeeding baby is safe contraceptive method?

ABSOLUTELY NOT. They say your chances are slightly diminished (some say fully diminished) but I know many women who got pregnant by believing that rumour.

I am still to get my periods.

Google all your questions and you will get full professional advice. Particularily regarding birth control during breast feeding. Only trust the professional sites and disregard places like "Yahoo Answers."

**Starnique** · 03-05-13, 04:33 AM

Wakeup said it nicely. I find it weird that you have to break it down to a grown man that the milk is for the baby. Lol. All you got to do is tell him. If he don't like it thats his problem. Or you could just pump your milk into a bottle and give it to him since he's having these weird baby fetishes and see if he likes that.