Hello,
I wonder if you could give me a little advice. My ex and I split up after a 3 year relationship due to a huge row about our finances. We had been in an unstable financial situation for a long time and it was putting strain on our relationship. After our row, he left for a friend's house and has barely spoken to me since. When he has, he has been extremely evasive saying he doesn't know what he wants and avoiding making any commitments to pick up his things from the flat we shared together. However, he seems to have made the decision that we shouldn't be together. These mixed messages are driving me crazy, as I don't know whether I'm coming or going. I love this man with all of my heart and know we could be so much more. We had both changed and seemed to have forgotten why we loved each other in the first place. I have taken into account the things I made mistakes with and unfortunately whilst I can't change that now I have looked at what I could do to resolve them, if he would give me the chance to. Of course, I tried the "begging" ritual before seeking guidance, which only seemed to push him further away. For now, I am trying to give him the space that he appears to need but I have no idea where to go from here.
Do you have any tips for me on how I could go about reconciling with him, or whether I have a chance to at all?
Many thanks.