I'm 36 Years Old, Model, & I've Never Had a Girlfriend

[Kromat83]

you look fine, except that haircut, but that's just me.

I think you lack the confidence to approach women, you need to show more of
your personality and not worry about things going wrong, just have fun with it.

Don't overanalyze situations, and just feel what you say with the truth, as
though they were your friends, but subjects on what they might enjoy.

Attraction takes time to develop, so show them what you have to offer, and let
them get interested in you, the more it starts to work, the more confidence you'll build.

Don't worry what they say, don't let them bring you down, and know the type of person you are.
Women like someone that can stand up for themselves, be in control and have ambitions.

[Jonathan48]

thanks. I usually fall in love with girls who already have boyfriends, or just fall for girls who aren't interested in me.........when i fall in love with someone, even if they're not interested in me I write them poetry, write music about them, send them gifts, and just generally go overboard............why is all that shit romantic if the love is mutual, but creepy if she doesn't feel the same for you??

[Jonathan48]

ya, i've tried that.........but when they find out i'm a radical (a career in international social work, a socialist, a mystic, all that good quirky stuff), they stop writing after that.
thanks, love you, Michelle.

[Jonathan48]

not helpful.

[Jonathan48]

no, i'm positive i'm straight. but thanks.

[Jonathan48]

friends that are female? ya, several.........but i usually help them with their guy problems (helping them w/ their relationship problems with their boyfriends.........imagine that).

[Jonathan48]

thanks.
i like Indian women, so ya, Michelle23 would be cool.
Awkward, yes. Lazy & unintelligent, certainly not............i can speak 5 languages, if that says anything.
As far as my hair, i can't help it........i'm half Jewish, not much i can do about that.

[Jonathan48]

thanks for your advice.
hair is political..........there are both spiritual and political reasons to my hair, but i'll work on it.

i'm a radical activist, so standing up for myself and having ambitions certainly isn't a problem for me.

i still don't understand though: OTHER guys have awkward & dork issues like i do, OTHER guys have bad hair like i do, OTHER guys have the same lack of skills everyone in here described, but THEY have had girlfriends before...........i still don't understand.

[TwillightBrony]

thanks. I usually fall in love with girls who already have boyfriends, or just fall for girls who aren't interested in me.........when i fall in love with someone, even if they're not interested in me I write them poetry, write music about them, send them gifts, and just generally go overboard............why is all that shit romantic if the love is mutual, but creepy if she doesn't feel the same for you??

asi I mentioned if you are really looking for a help you need to be more specific. describe some situation, perhaps there is some simple fault you do very often (or perhaps not). For example, this indicates you are too much sweet, romantic etc. (also it calls needy, recommend you to google smt. about it). what is not usually very attracative (depending on personality). Womans usually like when men keeps some emotional distance in the beginings and always love less than they do.

My appologis if I write down cheap advices. I despise that myself... I am sure after that years you have your own view of issue. I am just curious you know... I am 25 now but could be 36 and the same... I also wander how is possible that 15 y.o. rather average in everything brat is so much successful in this stuff and many university graduates with carrer competeting in sprorts, enterpreneurs etc. are not. I realise most of it is in your charizma, but that does not explain anything. Most of that poeple have countlessly much more experience -and therefore deveoped personality - that other of that unexperienced kids... What is even more dreadful: every ganja stoner is quite (or even very much ) attractive for womens due to his "hobby". And that makes me worried what real values in this world for other sexes are...

PS: devotion for smt is valuable asset. That should be in your favour.

[michelle23]

lol I wonder was Imma giving him advice? OP ignore that troll-hes a right muppet!

I think you should stop falling for taken women first of all. That is bad!

And I think you need to lay off with all the romance. It is creepy if its too much. Most women only like all that romantic stuff after they have already fallen for you-not while there still getting to know you.

[Vintazh]

Please excuse the shallow, pointless posts that imbeciles and fools have given in response to your important question.

You seem like a amazing person, and definitely one helluva stud.

But when women get close to you, in what way do they see you? as an elder brother figure? Are you the type of man who girls usually cling to, who's like, always there for them and stuff when their boyfriends dump them? They may either a)See you as an elder brother figure, or b) You may need to advertise your hetero status.

However, if you are all that you say you are, I'm quite certain that quite a few women may have crushes on you, but may not be able to get close to you. I suppose they might feel like you may be different *when* they see you.

Have you tried blind dating? You clearly a very handsome individual, so whomever dates you would be quite lucky, but it may be a step in the right direction.

[HeheMan]

They're just scared of a strong man.

[fearoflove]

They're just scared of a strong man.

Who is scared? And who is the strong man?

[smackie9]

Sorry but you need to let your balls drop and start being more appealing to woman by being more of a man. That means stop being every girls emotional tampon. Next, you have to be bold and confident when hitting on girls. You need to hang out with the guys, if you want to learn how to get girls. Find yourself a mentor, a wing man to show you the ropes. Women don't dig a guy that has a bunch of female friends because they wonder what's wrong with you.......and question your sexuality....just like what happened on here. It might be stereotyping, but women want a man's man. And I am speaking as a woman...I find men, who are involved with masculine activities, and are surrounded by a good group of bros irresistible and worth checking out.