Yep, that's me done with trying. As frustrating as it might be considering the positive start we had I've got to leave this one behind unless she makes the effort.

To be honest I do feel a bit disrespected/used by the whole situation. She seemed really keen on me to start with and although it was only one evening and a few messages afterwards it genuinely felt like there was some potential there so it's a pretty sudden drop in communications.

I'm not going to be rude or standoffish if we do meet again through mutual friends. I'm not that kind of guy and would much rather at least try to front it up and be polite and friendly, however difficult that might be.

Thanks again for the advice and understanding...at least I can feel I gave it my best shot.