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    Is this Friendship or is he flirting?

    I met a guy who got me so close to him as a friend. Right from the starting, he used to say "I like you as a friend". He was attracted and impressed by my dressing that he would compliment almost all the days at work.

    He says

    On Friday, he says "I won't be seeing you for 2 days."
    "He will carry me and walk all way to my home and massage my legs if iam unable to walk."
    "I want to see you in all those modern dresses that you dont wear to office."

    He asks

    "Shall i give company to you for few hours if you feel you are alone at home?"
    "What do you wear at home generally? Get connected in video chat so that i can see you in a night wear."
    "What if we both get physically attracted to each other?"

    He calls me "Dear, Baby"

    He takes my hand in his hands and puts ring on my finger. How can he do this? I strictly told these are not allowed in a good friendship..

    Once he even asked me "Do you like me?"

    Is this friendship or is he high time flirting with me?
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    How is it even a question? Do you have a learning disability or a social disorder?

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    He's flirting with you...

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    Thanks for taking your time to read my post.

    He says "See still I'm not in a clear mindset of what i expect from us. I'm confused. So to avoid more confusion, I'm staying away and avoiding you. Everything is a problem for me. Don't message or call me. Leave me alone."

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    Yup, he's flirting...

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    What movie are you stuck in? I just need to know so I don't pay for it when it comes out on demand. Honestly, carries you home, then massages your legs??? Seriously??

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    Quote Originally Posted by okwhat2013 View Post
    What movie are you stuck in? I just need to know so I don't pay for it when it comes out on demand. Honestly, carries you home, then massages your legs??? Seriously??
    Could be Blast from the Past... Not that I watch those kinda movies or anything....

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    I think there's a big language block here.

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    Let me ask you a question, does this man have a girl friend? Because if so, then this is one of the main reasons why a boyfriend or a husband SHOULD NOT have close female relationships. This is how cheating starts. Just like this.

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