@Michelle and Starnique - What if your bf had a close female friend before you started dating? Would she be off limits if the relationship got serious? Even if there was no emotional past between them at all? I agree with new friends for sure, but I don't see anything about existing friends.
As for the OPs problem, she is pretty much f*cked based on the previous thread, so my advice to her is to get a time machine and not get married.