Im sorry if I ramble on, but please bear with me. Me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years and it was a long distance relationship until 6 months ago when I moved to be closer to him. At the time neither of us were ready to move in together as we really hadnt spent more than a few days at a time together, but now I want to move in together but he is dragging his feet. He says that if we rent a place together hes afraid we are going to be renting forever and not be able to buy our own place. I feel as though this is just an excuse that he is using so he doesn't need to leave his current living condition (which is quite cushy). I am angry and hurt that I am the one that gave up my job and moved away from my family for him yet he isnt ready to make any sacrifices. I guess what Im asking is am I being unreasonable? Also how do I talk to him? Anytime I try to bring up any topic that is more serious he just sits there and stares at me and I end up feeling like I'm attacking him. Thanks for your help guys.