Call me crazy....

[ImTrying]

First i wanna start off by saying its a late night.... about 2 a.m. eastern time. I'm watching her sleep. We've been together since New Years of this year. We're both 22. I've been in 3 other realtionships b4 this, not counting any flings or anything casual..... I love her, and when i say this i know. (Yea i know, talk about quick) Whats funny is we wound up moving in together about 3 weeks after New Years. We have great times, great support to some degree from others, great sex, and we're somewhat seemingly each others ideal life partner.....

Theres just one issue that some what seemingly urks my nerves.... now call me crazy, sexist, or simply just plain unfair..... (i know this may seem like it) Its our previous sex history. We're pretty much neck and neck. I've actually never made a realtionship out of casual sex parnters, never-the-less a womans whos slept with just as many or more people then me, but like my name says...... I'm trying. Its almost strange to think that i want this perfect person who I wouldn't say has never been left with so much "Bagagge", but at least as little as mine.... alot little. I think sometimes im being immature about it, and i fight my thoughts and try not to let them get the best of me. That only leads to acting a bit crabby toward people or sleepless nights. Honestly i love her. If i could remove the part of my brain that thinks that way I do, I would for her in a heartbeat. We've even discussed it, and I understand the situation at hand. It's just those random thoughts that seem to boogle my mind. I don't know, I really need some advice......

Thanks for listening......

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Respond there too if you want....

[Stillinlove]

This is a very touchy subject. People these days have sex because they want to, because their horny, i dont know. Im lucky im not like this. But remember that people make bad decisions, and when she slept with these guys she had no idea shed ever meet you. A woman is the closest to the divine as we can achieve on earth, or rather i believe so, and the only time she should( forget pleasantries) give it up, should be with someone she loves, who loves her. Which makes it perfect. But were living in the modern world. You love her man, and thats all that should matter. Take care of her dude.

[ImTrying]

Wow man, I really appreciated that. That's just the kind of positive thinking I need when I feel crazed about it at times. Your right, all that matters is that I love this girl. Hell, I'd even say the same about myself. I'd take every instance and sexual debacle back if I could, knowing that I'd meet her someday. Thanks again man

[mhussain]

dont know mate..... seriously dude...she is with you now and as far as i can tell she loves you., why on earth would u try and spoil ur time together by thinking of what has happened in the past????

whats past is past, sure it burns like hell but can u do anything about it? NO

so try and forget it, and live ur life with her and be happy

Hussain

[Ratfish256]

whats past is past, sure it burns like hell but can u do anything about it? NO


Hussain

Haha sorry... I just found that funny. Anyway I dont think I could have said it any better than the above.

[Only-virgins]

I think I am going to just go and have as much sex now as possible. This is very informative. I mean. I am just going to go fawk all the girls I meet because I know that my future lover will have no choice but to forgive me... Laters...

[misombra]

forgive you for what?

[Only-virgins]

forgive you for what?

Fine, let me rephrase to "they will have no choice but to not care".

[Junket]

You're crazy!

[misombra]

damn it i wanted to say that!

[mhussain]

me too

Hussain

[Only-virgins]

Me three.................

[mhussain]

look here mate, in one way nihilist is right, if u r truly in love then there is no way ur partner should have had relationships previously and there is no way u shoudl accept it.... but that is a fantasy world where as this is reality that we are all flawed so no matter what you do or how much you think, what is past is past.

as i was told myself when i had a problem, just be happy she is with you right now. what more do u want? she had relationships in the past . who doesnt? but the key factor is that she is with you right now.....be happy mate and just ....be happy

i really hope that things work out for you

Hussain

[Junket]

Well...I did take my sweet time with that.

It would've been a bit late regardless who did it.