Originally Posted by
Giantsfan92
Thank You everyone. Have not spoke to her in a week. What should I do if she calls me? I have her on Facebook too. She will tell me Im ignoring her so how do I respond if this happens?
Let me be the first to say, do not even think about hitting that send button or answering that phone. You will only get pulled in again and that's the last thing you need. Avoid contact, if she persists you tell her straight forward that you don't like being used and if this starts an argument, so be it, you need to stick up for yourself! If worse comes to worse, block her online, and you can even block her calls. Hopefully that doesn't have to happen but if you feel put on the spot for something that you didn't do wrong, then there is a problem and it's rude for her to be that way because one, if she made such a commitment with her parents then why is she looking elsewhere and then coming to you to vent and talk about it? Knowing you two were close and knowing that you wanted to be with her again? Selfish and demeaning to you and you are better than that. If it were me, all connections would be cut, end of story.
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