Relationship Help

[BottleRocket]

Hey. I'm fresh to this forum. My name is Brandon. Uh...I'm straight.

I have been dating my girlfriend, Kim, for five weeks now. I am fourteen years old. We both go to the same school.
I went through a very worried state about losing her because she means so much to me. Now I've overcome that a little bit even though I still get a little paranoid/worried sometimes.

My MAIN problem is that I have trouble talking. I'm kind of a shy person around girls but I talk all the time to my guy friends. My girlfriend has brought it up to me a few times that I don't talk enough. And I know it. Sometimes at lunch I don't say much and I know she's not happy with it. Lately I've been trying to talk more. Sometimes I just don't know what to say. I want this relationship to last forever...so it is really important to me. She means the world to me and without her I think I would have nothing.

So any help....? I'll probably post some more things I need help with if people respond.

Thank you so much!
Brandon

[janny]

Hey Brandon,
it doesn't really matter what you talk about...just talk about life..anything..anything you see..anything you feel/think...anything that pops into your mind..be random..if you start talking about smth she doesn't like you to, it's not a such big deal..at least you'll know it next time...if you are really out of ideas and stories, encourage her in talking...ask her something and while she talks you can gather your ideas
I hope it helps

[hopelesromantic]

Hi Brandon,

Check out this thread:
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/t6754-hmmhaving-trouble-talking-to-girls.html[/url]

It may give you some ideas.

[BottleRocket]

Hi Brandon,

Check out this thread:
[url]http://www.loveforum.net/t6754-hmmhaving-trouble-talking-to-girls.html[/url]

It may give you some ideas.

Thanks a lot...