I met a guy in Feb. It all started off as a sex-only thing and was well good, no complications etc.
In April I realised I had developed a bit of a crush and asked him how he felt and if there was potential for more - he wasn't sure blah blah. Ok, I got it - he didn't want more.
So, I said to him that a sex-only thing didn't work for me anymore and stopped contacting him.
He went on holiday and texted me from holiday - of course, I missed him and replied and we started texting back and forth again. I thought about it and I felt ready to see him again as my crush had calmed down a little. 6 weeks after he said he wasn't sure about a relationship we finally saw each other again last night.
We had a great evening (always got on well on a personal level!) and I took for granted that he'd stay over like we used to in the past and we'd have sex. Since he said 6 weeks ago that he wasn't ready for a relationship I assumed that we'd continue that same thing.
All of the sudden, however, he announces that he'd leave as he had to get up early. He asked me jokingly if I had a bike (as he lives a bit far) and I responded "no, but I have a bed" and he rejected the offer!!!!!! :-O
OK - so, I thought it was all on a "just-friends-level" and was kind of disappointed but then: HE ALL OF THE SUDDEN GIVES ME A KISS! And leaves....
I don't get it!! ??????????????????????????
Could a man please explain to me what this behaviour is supposed to mean? To me it just doesn't make sense!
Thank you, guys!