Hi all,
My girlfriend broke up with me in January and after a period apart reconciled at Easter. Since then we've not seen a lot of each other due to her having exams which finished last week. We'd spent a couple of weekends together and talked lots on the phone. After she finished her exams she spent the week at Uni partying with her friends, I had no problem with this but a couple of times things got a bit tetchy because I wanted to talk to her and she was being a bit difficult saying she was very busy.
Anyway that all seemed to be fine after a conversation to straighten things out Friday. She came back Saturday and made no attempt to see me and was being quite distant with me. Eventually I ended up seeing her yesterday and it was almost immediately apparent something was wrong. After 10 awkward minutes I just outright asked and she wasn't happy with me because she thought I was annoyed she hadn't come straight back, a miss understanding and once we discussed it and she warmed up.
However the whole time I was there things seemed slightly off. Usually we'd hang out in her room, it was a nice day so we sat outside but it was slightly unusual. Her family all seemed surprised to see me so I assumed she hadn't told them I was coming over. She seemed kind of shifty, not looking at me whilst talking, made me feel like maybe she was hiding something or something was bothering her. When dinner was ready she clearly wanted me to leave, I said I didn't mind waiting if she wanted me to but she said she'd feel bad and ushered me out and i'd only been there a couple of hours, and this was the first time I'd seen her in 4 weeks. We were having a kiss goodbye, which was good until she heard someone coming and jumped away from me very fast so not to be caught which makes me think she hasn't told her family?
It all just seems unusual behaviour, when we've met up since getting back together it's always been fine but it's always when its been just us at my place or out in town. It's almost like she doesn't want anyone to know. I'm not sure what to make of it and I'm not sure if I'm just being paranoid? She also made plans to see two of her friends from around here - who I know she doesn't like very much - before making plans to see me?
It just all feels pretty ominous to me!