Hey guys, I'm new. The main reason why I got on here was to find some sort of an answer or something to make sense of this situation...so here we go.
The past week....my guy was acting really weird......and I could tell he was lying but I didn't have proof....so I made the mistake (or was it a mistake?) of logging onto his Twitter, and I confronted him about talking to this girl through direct messaging. I specifically asked him about two hours before if they'd been talking and his reply was no. So I asked him again, about six times, and he still said no. So I took a screenshot of their conversation, sent it to him, and replied "Well, this says other wise."
He was taken aback because he didn't see it coming. Then he told me about how he messaged this other girl who he grinded on at a dance when I wasn't there. He KNOWS that I really don't like her in the first place too...
The next day, his sister told me about his flirting with some girl he worked with at the pool. So I asked the girl about it. She said yes it was true, and she said my boyfriend told her he liked her. I was livid. I called him over to my house and confronted him in person. Nothing. Didn't say a word. I'm just so upset....I mean, why would you tell a girl you like her, and have no intention of getting anything out of it. Does that really happen???????
So a few days later, he's cried, REAL TEARS, after I've yelled at him about it and balled my eyes out in front of him. I will always compare myself to her, at least that is what it feels like. I jut don't understand why he would say he liked her if he didn't have other intentions of saying it. I am just really torn up about it. I have always been faithful to him even if I've seen a guy I'd be willing to get to know better. We've been together for three freaking years. Is this too much to get mad over and throw away three years worth? I'm super upset and I still love him, as stupid as it is to do that. Writing this, I'm thinking "Ummmm duh! Find someone else because no one deserves that." But I can't really do it. Can I just get a guys perspective on why he would do that, do you think he really is sorry if he cried (I always read things that if a guy cries over you then it means something, but i don't know if that's true or not), and he has said over and over he doesn't deserve me and if I need my space he will let me go. but I keep holding on! What's your advice on what I should do or what do you think is understandable or if I'm being really stupid and I should just dump him......
Please help me out fellas. Thanks in advance guys!