Originally Posted by
nathoonder
anyhow and it's not as if I looked her in the eye and told her I was alright with cheating or abuse, but if it happened I definitely wouldn't break up with her. I've been told I should seek counseling but I'm happy with who I am, I'd just be even happier if I were in a relationship.
Nat, you don't have to tell her how you feel - she will figure it out over time anyway. Problem is, most girls will want a guy who has better self esteem than that and eventually leave you.
Only an abusive girl will want a man who's happy to be abused.
Never regret anything that has happened in your life. It cannot be changed, forgotten or undone. So, take it as a lesson learned and move on.