Originally Posted by
FlaCooln
Try different positions. Maybe go with you on top, so you have more control. Let him know that you want him to orgrasm and that he just needs to enjoy the sex and not worry so much. Explain to him constantly changing positions is never gonna get you off and when you get loud keep doing what he was doing.
Many people have a bit of sexual issues/hangups due to past partners. My GF gets a bit ebmarrassed and says sorry for organsming too loudly or long before I do. Her exBF (selfish/narcissistic bastard) made her feel bad about enjoying sex and orgasming too much/too early. I told her that I love it and her being like that makes me feel great and enjoy having sex even more. I communicate with her and she is getting used to being more open/talking about sex, hence our sex life is REALLY good. Also, what kind of asshole complains about his GF having multiple orgasms?...I think I'm lucky guy, but i do want to punch her ex in the face.
He probably is a bit insecure about PE and maybe a past GF made it an issue. I think if you both work on it your sexlife will improve for the better. Keep it open, fun, and talk to each other!
This is certainly a good way to go about it and is probably what's going on. As far as entering in the conversation, like you said your already on the phone, the transition is as simple "hey, listen , you know that I really enjoy being with you and ....and I want you to know that it's not about lasting real long, I want to you to enjoy...."
It'll only be a difficult transition if you think it'll be. Hope that's useful
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