what should i think of this guy?

[toknow]

please tell me that you would not consider a good lay a fair trade off for herpes and sleepless nights.

Rofl.......

[fearoflove]

Please tell me that you would not consider a good lay a fair trade off for herpes and sleepless nights.

Never said it is a fair trade. But you can get STDs and possibly get your heartbroken with anyone. Safe sex should be practised at all times.

[michelle23]

OP dont play the roll of trying to figure this guy out. "should we meet up to discuss this" There is nothing to discuss. He is a manipulative asshole who enjoys messing with your head and only wants to get into your pants. If you do meet him again-the same thing will happen again. Next time a guy says to you "Im not looking for a relationship" say "fine, goodbye" if you dont want to be used

Look the bottom line is most men are not that forward-especially not on a first date. If he is-he is bad news so you walk away and dont look back.

[Lozane]

Yeah thanks a lot guys, I know, im kind of stupid to even think it over, so i will end the contact, thanks for your help

[namemyname]

Never said it is a fair trade. But you can get STDs and possibly get your heartbroken with anyone. Safe sex should be practised at all times.

No, you said there was a pro and con to being with a player.

I think most women would agree that there IS no pro.

Being a great lay shouldn't trump being a douche and a liar. One who's possibly herpetic, at that.

[michelle23]

ya my nf is a good lay as well as a good man. why settle for one or the other when you can have both

[namemyname]

ya my nf is a good lay as well as a good man. why settle for one or the other when you can have both

Bingo!

I think some people, both genders, believe they need to settle in order to be in a relationship. So, they'll tolerate some serious crap just to say they have someone.

[michelle23]

let the setlers settle. theres enough of them to keep each other busy with all their shite and drama. leave the good men for us good women

[paythebills]

ya my nf is a good lay as well as a good man. why settle for one or the other when you can have both

"thanks".........