online friendships with girls overseas while in a relationship

[sirenfire]

be male,
intimidated by other men;
have one best male friend that you don't interact with or hang out with all that much.
rest of friends are female, met most of them online
have met online girls from locality... sort of maintain friendship with them, but as it is with best male friend, don't talk to them or hang with them all that much
have more interest/motivation in nurturing online friendships, more so with seeking new online friends (all female because it's not homo that way) in other countries -
the kicker: they're all in OkCupid (you're an OkC moderator)
have a girlfriend of 2 years that understood this strange need for approval
but gf starts to notice that you're now honeymooning with your new friendships online, messaging them all throughout the day whilst neglecting the relationship
get frustrated whenever gf expresses that feels lonely and neglected,
get mad and take her hurt personally, saying she's accusing you of being neglectful etc
insist you need friends since you dont have that much, and justify your search by saying your previous bff online now has a kid and her priorities have changed (doesnt talk to you all that much anymore)
some of these potential "friends" from overseas have already expressed interest, fawning over your good looks, and how fortunate they are to be exchanging messages with someone as handsome as you.

what do you make of the situation, and the male specimen?

[michelle23]

Have you dumped him? Hes a player. He is cheating on you. You are one naive, silly, b**ch if you think his need for validation is okay. Get rid of him and find yourself a more confident, secure man who will give you his full attention. What is wrong with women like you? Did your dad lock you in the basement and beat you? Is that why you will settle for this crap and think its okay for some narcissistic prick to mess you around? Doormat