Hi everyone! I hope some of you can help me.
I divorced my husband a few months ago and decided that this is a good time to start dating etc. I'm not looking for a relationship as yet, but for a nice fling.
So, I met this guy last week in a club. He was American and was in London for business. We hit it off from the start. He got my number and texted me whole night and then the next day. The texts got a bit steamy at the end...So we went out once. I thought he was really nice and was really interested in me: asking me questions etc. We had fun and I thought this would be it - some fun and he could help me to get on the dating scene and it would be an experience for me. He asked me if I wanted to have a relationship and if I wanted to have kids and I answered no. He said that he wanted to have someone. At the end of the first date we snogged in a taxi, but I didn't invite him over.
I decided to have sex with him and invited him over the next day. He was asking if I was ok with the fact that we might not see each other again. and again i said yes, I was fine with it. I really thought that this is what I wanted. The night was great and then he left. He went back to the US a few days ago and wrote me a text that it was good to meet me and that if he's ever back in the UK, he will let me know. That was it!
Now, I can't stop thinking about him. I don't want a relationship with him, but I would like to hear from him and keep in touch and maybe get him to come here, or I could visit him.
We agreed not to see each other again and he didn't ask me for my email, or skype or anything.
I googled him up and found out he gave me a false first name. The rest was right: his surname and place of work.
I was thinking of biefriending him on FB, but I don't want to look like a psycho. I don't want to send him another text, in case he doesn't reply and I will feel bad. But I would want him to know how I feel...Should I contact him??
maybe i should wait a month or so, and then send him a casual message?