Men aren't mind readers. It seem like they should know some things but they don't sometimes. They have no problem telling you what they want so go for what you want. I normally just snuggle closer to him and lay my head on his chest, press my chest on his and rest my leg across him so he can caress me and talk for a little bit but if they start to doze off or something or I do, I just move to my side but not too far. We dont got to be wrapped all up on each other but I like to feel their skin and their body heat.