His girlfriend is coming to my school :/

[jmcngirly]

Hey guys my name is susan. I never had a boyfriend or a first kiss before. In Jan I met this boy on a school field trip. He was from a different school 20 mins away from me. We hit it off and then I texted him first when I got home. After that we started texting each other a lot and the conversations became much more in depth. One day he didn't text back for two days and I got nervous and double texted him. Then we started calling each other AND talking.for hours straight. By this time I knew he had some kind of interest in me and I was surprised becuase I'm black and hes white. And I only liked white guys. Anyway. We planned to meet and he asked what I was doing for valentines day. We arranged our first date .but after I had been.waiting.for 10 mins he.Said he just got up and he was so sorry and he called me two times the next day just to say how sorry he was. After that we tried two more times meeting up but it just never worked out. Then our conversations became more vague slowly. And then he completely ignores me. For. Two months. He then texts me back asking what school I go to and then reveals HIS GIRLFRIEND IS GOING TO MY SCHOOL IN SEPTEMBER. after that I ignored him for a Month to.make it see how it felt and the. He responded wondering WHY I NEVER TEXTED HIM BACK. Then we started have vague conversations. And it just stooped again. With me being the last message sent. I miss him so much. Should I text him hey! Maybe just so I can get the last text. What do I do when his girlfriend. shows up at school in September. Should I text him hey??? Should I call him? Should I do nothing??? Please give me your advice. Btwdubs we are both going into 11th

[Valixy]

Susan, I'm sure he liked you but unfortunately you two didn't succeed to meet even if you both tried for three times and I suppose he started to lose interest then. He has a girlfriend now and even told you about her, so maybe you should respect it - and he will respect you for this. I don't think that you should text him again but try to accept that you met a nice guy that made you feel special and realise that there will be other guys that you will be interested in and vice versa. Enjoy the summer and don't worry too much about September yet. The fact that his girlfriend will start attending the same school is a simple coincidence and you shouldn't think or do anything about it. There will be more exciting things for you once the new course begins than worrying about his girlfriend

[anonymous_a]

Did you know when you met him that he had a girlfriend? If so, then what the hell were you even doing texting him? If not, and you found out later, that speaks for the kind of person he is. Cut him lose, do NOT befriend his girlfriend, and maybe one day if he becomes single, something can happen. But even then, judging by what you've told us about him, it probably won't. Just move on.