Hello Everyone!
Here is my story, hope you are all ready, and can offer me some sort of advice because currently I am in a bad situation that seems like there is no end in sight.
I met my boyfriend last summer through my co worker, who happens to be his twin sister. She had told me that she felt I would be perfect for her brother, and it turns out she was right. We hit it off and had an amazing relationship that grew very intense very fast. As the year progressed, we hit our share of bumps and broke up, however we both knew we were right for each other, but it was going to take some effort to work things out. Things got worse before they got better, and his sister (my co worker) became involved in our relationship in a very intrusive way. When he and I were at our worst, she contacted me via text with some very hateful things, saying how he will never be with me, and that I am an embarrassment to their family. I was aware that he told her what was going on between us, which also upset me. Long story short, after she spewed her hatred at me and vice versa, things were hostile between her and I at work. At this point, I felt the relationship was over, so I didn't care what I said to her and took what she said to me and let it roll off my back.
A few days later, he contacted me with a heartfelt apology, and after that came to my house and we reconciled completely. We have an unbreakable relationship and this was proven to me through his words and actions in the days that followed. At first no one knew we were together and we chose to fix our relationship in private, but slowly through some investigating on his sisters behalf and stalking social media, she knew we were together. This has consumed her life and she has written him and I off and gotten the whole family against me. No one will speak to him and they look at me like the devil. Even his own mother has sided with her. He has tried to reach out and make things right, but his sister just responds with hatred and anger. As I said, this has consumed her life. I can understand that she may feel foolish, for trying to defend him and it backfiring. He and I are both very happy now, however the stress of this is causing some issues. We can't go to family functions as he is no longer invited. Will this end? In due time I would like to reach out to her, although she is the type that holds on to anger and holds grudges, and I know myself, and I am too angry as well to even begin to speak to her. I feel he needs to fix it first. Any advice would be helpful.
-Lauren