Originally Posted by
anonymous_a
I've never slept with a boss or professor, but I flirt with customers all the time at work to get tips. Even when asked if I have boyfriend, sometimes, if they are a little aggressive, I'll say yes, but usually I brush the question with a flirty "maybe." Knowing they have a chance of taking me home, gets me good tips lol. And the funniest part is, my boyfriend actually works at the same bar as me, and sees this happening, and laughs it off, cause he knows I'm going with him at 3AM
That's the extent of it thought. I've never gone beyond that.
Oh good... make an ass out of me for sticking up for you. WTF? and LMAO. I'm going to assume that that ^^^^ was the old you. You just have to be nice and do your job well to get tips, sweety. You don't have to let down your new personal and relationship boundaries to get coin. AND... you block people from crossing your relationship boundaries by telling them, yes, indeed I do have a boyfriend and he's right over there... then wave to your main man.
Unless of course you're a peeler, then you get paid to flirt for tips.
Last edited by Wakeup; 11-07-13 at 02:11 AM.
Reason: added at 'AND'
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