Originally Posted by
michelle23
He should have said "dont worry about it-we can take things slow"
This^.
There are so many ways to give pleasure. How does he give back to *you*?
I do wonder how much you really like this guy. Oral on a partner (give and receive) is very intimate. I never much cared for it with my ex b/c we weren't emotionally close. Completely different with my SO, I can't get enough of him.
Second thoughts can generally be amended with judicious action; injudicious actions can seldom be recovered with second thoughts.
--Cyteen by C.J.Cherryh