anonymous got a hard time for planning to cheat on her bf and for having an emotional affair. the harshness was waranted
OP ignore any negative comments you get unless you feel you deserve.
why dont you give us more info? what topics are you banned from discussing and why? is there any other issues in your relationship that you havnt mentioned and how long have you been together?
why did you come here? is it for advice on how to fix it or whether you should break up with her.
the more detail you give-the more constructive advice you will get.
"Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".