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    embarrassed to be here... :/

    Hello , my name is Peter and i am a little embarrassed to be here to be honest as I have never had reason to ask anyone for relationship advice before now.

    I have been forbidden to "spread" about certain topics with my friends - it just creates arguments - so I figured it would be good to ask and discuss in a more impersonal and anonymous environment

    thanks for having me.

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    Quote Originally Posted by петер View Post
    Hello , my name is Peter and i am a little embarrassed to be here to be honest as I have never had reason to ask anyone for relationship advice before now.

    I have been forbidden to "spread" about certain topics with my friends - it just creates arguments - so I figured it would be good to ask and discuss in a more impersonal and anonymous environment

    thanks for having me.
    You realize that you just told a whole forum of people that you're embarrassed to be among them? Oh the irony.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    You realize that you just told a whole forum of people that you're embarrassed to be among them? Oh the irony.
    wow, if i had wanted nit-picking criticism, I would have stayed at home.

    thanks very much, I don't think

    I thought I said, "I'm embarrassed to share my problems on the internet"?

    Not sure I want to share now.

    Cheers.

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    Quote Originally Posted by HeartIsAching View Post
    You realize that you just told a whole forum of people that you're embarrassed to be among them? Oh the irony.
    I re-read what I wrote and I can't see how I said I am embarrassed to be among the people here - your comment has made me feel like there is really no hope for me if something simple like this is misunderstood.

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    Why are you embarrassed? Don't be. Although if you can't handle these people above ^ then you may as well leave, because trust me, it'll get worse, before it gets better lol. Trust me, I know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by петер View Post
    I re-read what I wrote and I can't see how I said I am embarrassed to be among the people here - your comment has made me feel like there is really no hope for me if something simple like this is misunderstood.
    You can't? Shall I parse it for you?

    Pity they don't teach critical thinking in school anymore.

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    I think we should take it easy here guys, I don't think he meant any offense. Simply that he is embarrassed about sharing his own problems. Maybe his problems are embarrassing lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anonymous_a View Post
    I think we should take it easy here guys, I don't think he meant any offense. Simply that he is embarrassed about sharing his own problems. Maybe his problems are embarrassing lol.
    well the post i wrote in the marriage forum has yet to be published, but it is entitled:

    "is there something wrong with me? considering chemical castration".

    Thanks for the support - perhaps your own problems are what are making you be cruel to strangers..? No wonder you are here. I'm leaving this conversation now.

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    If you mistake blunt honesty for cruelty, sure.

    I will not sugar-coat my posts for sensitive brats. Nor will I apologize for them.

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    anonymous got a hard time for planning to cheat on her bf and for having an emotional affair. the harshness was waranted

    OP ignore any negative comments you get unless you feel you deserve.

    why dont you give us more info? what topics are you banned from discussing and why? is there any other issues in your relationship that you havnt mentioned and how long have you been together?

    why did you come here? is it for advice on how to fix it or whether you should break up with her.

    the more detail you give-the more constructive advice you will get.
    "Don't ask a question if you can't handle the answer".

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    Wow someone doesn't have a sense of humor......

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    Quote Originally Posted by петер View Post
    "is there something wrong with me? considering chemical castration".
    No....I think about that all the time. Let us know how that goes for you ...lol

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    Quote Originally Posted by петер View Post
    wow, if i had wanted nit-picking criticism, I would have stayed at home.

    thanks very much, I don't think

    I thought I said, "I'm embarrassed to share my problems on the internet"?

    Not sure I want to share now.

    Cheers.

    Lol all so unnecessary. HIA's initial response was perfectly appropriate and all this could have been avoided if you'd replaced the above with 'Oops, didn't mean it that way, my bad'. Silly boy. Word of advice OP, when you come to a forum like this it's better to just go with the flow than be defensive and thereby inflame things further.

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