He's Amazing...Except For One (Major) Thing...

[HeartIsAching]

Vienna sausage, maybe.

[horndog]

Vienna? man, I was joking. Vienna or not, I am not letting you near my sausage. go find some other sausage! lol

[HeartIsAching]

Whatever, corndog. Not interested in your tootsie roll.

[michelle23]

horn dog I am not saying you don't have a valid point. All I am saying is it is possible that he could be cheating or he could have a hormonal problem of ED or something else... She cannot assume she knows what it is. It could be 100 different things. She still needs to ensure that cheating is NOT a factor as well as other things.

I was watching a program recently. You would be amazed what some men get up to on their lunch break at work even ones who seem to have a crazy hectic busy life and "no time for sex"

Its a fact-if he is not sleeping with you, ask yourself COULD there be someone else?

[horndog]

Michelle- sure It could be any of those things but in a practical sense I would say its more an adaption to a new lifestyle and environment. Most guys would be in shock!. I think the guy just needs time to adjust. If things are not better in a month or two then maybe look into medical stuff. They have gone only a few weeks without sex. That is nothing to be overly alarmed with at this point.

Achybreakyheart;

Just curious, if things are so great with you and your wife, then why are you hanging out on a love advice forum with :Heartisaching" as a screen name?

[HeartIsAching]

Cornhole,

Just curious, why do you think I owe you an explanation for anything?

[michelle23]

unless i read it wrong, OP has not clarified that this has only been an issue the last 3 weeks. she said the last time was 3 weeks ago. for all we know it could be an issue the past 3 months.

it could mean that he has a problem such as addiction, hormonal, medical if this is a big issue in such a new relationship.

if hes as great as OP says he is-then its unlikely hes a cheat.. but still a possibility

[lalalita]

Some people just don't want to have sex that often. It can be as black and white as that. Everyone has different sexual appetites and what might be "forever" since you had sex for you, might not even cross his mind. Most couples have the honeymoon stage where they have sex frequently. Once the initial lust wears off, and things get real, how often you have sex may change if you both do not have the same sexual appetite.

I think it's ridiculous that everyone automatically jumped to cheating.

[Kat-erina]

Some people just don't want to have sex that often. It can be as black and white as that. Everyone has different sexual appetites and what might be "forever" since you had sex for you, might not even cross his mind. Most couples have the honeymoon stage where they have sex frequently. Once the initial lust wears off, and things get real, how often you have sex may change if you both do not have the same sexual appetite.

I think it's ridiculous that everyone automatically jumped to cheating.

I think the guy has a sex problem. If a man is 100% a man he wants to **** no matter the shift, the kids, how tired he is, he looks at u, goes hard and wants to **** u... Simple as that... I think he is being super nice because he knows he has a problem