So I am finally ready to break up with my boyfriend of a year. A couple days ago, he said definitively he doesn't want kids. This is clearly a deal breaker for me. He lives on the opposite side of the same house, in a separate suite, but the way it is now he uses my kitchen all the time because his kitchen is really crappy.
Is it super-weird if I break up with him but still let him use my kitchen for a while? Should I tell him I want him to move all his stuff over to his side? I don't feel super-angry with him or bitter or anything. We just have different life goals.
Can I still talk to him if I see him around, or should I cut off all contact for a while? I've only ever broken up with guys who are total losers I never wanted to see again. Is it possible to break up with someone and not totally cut them off? Where is the line? Can I still be Facebook friends with him? Should I discuss this all with him?