Relationship advice from a femail point of view ?

[johnminch]

HI
Im a male looking for some advise from a female point of view. Me and my girlfriend have a 10 month old boy and obviously we don't have much time to our selves like we used to.
I really feel like i'm treading on eggshells about what i can and cant say as if i say something she doesn't like she just has this look on her face as though anger if just building up and she is biting her lip. To me i don't understand why its upset her.
1 example was the other day i picked her up from work and she said do you fancy going to the supermarket and getting some food there in the cafe. I said yes okay then. Then a second pause and then i said unless you want me to cook some food at home? She was totally not happy with me. within second i told her i really don't mind either way and i was only a suggestion and im happy to go for food at the supermarket. She was then like no we will just go home and had the face on with me and it ended in an argument. Today we had a big fall out because i work from home and she is studying from home and we have a rota for each other to do their work. I genuinely thought it was wednesday which is my day for doing some work. I said is it okay if i go do some work and i got the silent treatment and the look of anger. I asked what was wrong and she just doesn't talk. I said i don't mind if you want to do some college work but this ended up in a massive argument and i ended up going out for a couple of hours as i cant bear to hear raised voiced in front of our child.She has been calling me selfish and i really cant see what ive done to be selfish. I feel like everything i do is for her and our child
I don't get whats going off.any help would be great

[4 ratties]

I don't know all the details of the relationship or know her so its hard
To know.
She may be stressed having a young baby, which is stressful.
She could have resentments towards u making her angry.
Something else could be bothering her that your not aware of.
Is your sex life healthy? Do u guys communicate at all? That's what worries me is that u said she doesn't talk. When ur in a relationship and have a baby, communication is so important. Try to get her to open up to you while she's in her comfort zone and try to get some answers. If she's unwilling to talk to u and just keeps lashing out.. There's not much else u can do...