He confided in a girl and kissed her 💔

[rileysmummy]

Sorry to say but i spent a few weak days begging for him to be with me again, he eventually took me back and a few days later went out clubbing with his friends. xxx

[michelle23]

Hes gonna keep letting you down. You dont need anymore stress. Id rather be on my own. What use is a man if all he does is let you down and hurt you. Hes already shown you hes capable of cheating. Its only a matter of time before that girl turns into a full blown affair

[Wakeup]

Sorry to say but i spent a few weak days begging for him to be with me again, he eventually took me back and a few days later went out clubbing with his friends. xxx

What's your point, hon?

Anyway.. have you called a lawyer, spoken to your parents, called the government about what social services are available to you when you leave him for good, talked to him about how his behaviour affects you, asked him to go to couples councelling with you?

What, besides beg for him back have you done?

Motto: Be Prepared... even if you haven't the nerve to leave him now.. get your ducks in a row for when you have had enough. Please tell us you're not the type who will stay while he dawgs his way through his life.

[rileysmummy]

I've spoken to him about paying his way, the thing that stresses me out is that he wins a lot of money gambling, yesterday he won £100 and again the other day too, I've not seen a penny of that put towards our baby yet. I have to ask for certain things and see if he offers to pay. Since being back together I have found myself stronger to leave him but he's opened up to me and says he's glad he's with me and the rest. I'm going to leave it and see. I've pressed on the issue of counselling as my mum and her partner done it and it made them strong for a few years! He isn't up for it at all, but seeing as the stress' have died down I might bring it up again and see xxx

[michelle23]

Does he work? If he is not going to step up and provide for your child the you are better off without him. It sounds like he is as much use as a chocolate teapot.

[rileysmummy]

He does work and it's full time. I have been mentioning it recently and he's saying he will but I think I will talk to him about a certain amount per month and come to an agreement (: xxx

[michelle23]

Do you live together? Is he paying rent? Bills?

You sound young. Perhaps you should talk to your mum and see what she thinks. Take whatever advice she gives you and good luck xx

[rileysmummy]

We were planning on moving in together, reason as to why we aren't now is my baby has a few health issues and my mum lives opposite the hospital so it's just reassuring. My mums in a state of shock about it all, she didn't expect it and i guess she is just leaving it down to me now xxx

[michelle23]

well ask her what would she do in your shoes. Tell her you need her guidance now because you don't know what to do. Ask her if you do break up with him can you stay with her until you are ready to get your own place?

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