The "drinks at a bar" dilemma...

[namemyname]

I asked why she gave him her number, and she told me her sister, who is single and was actually interested in one of the guys gave it to them when she was giving them hers.

Bullshit. Her sister would have no reason to give her number out.

And for this guy to text her, "hey, gorgeous", he clearly had no idea you existed. Guys back out when they know they have NO chance. This guy was given a green light.

[namemyname]

sometimes my wife saves a little cash and just shows her boobs to show her gratitude for the drinks, LOL! Guys love it

Ugh. And, you're proud of this?? I hope you know that guys don't love it - they feel pity for the partner of a woman like this, and women would feel disgust.

Why not turn her out on the street and hook for the mortgage?

[horndog]

Ugh. And, you're proud of this?? I hope you know that guys don't love it - they feel pity for the partner of a woman like this, and women would feel disgust.

Why not turn her out on the street and hook for the mortgage?

Funny stuff. I bet your man would wait in line to buy my wife a drink. Pity? hahaha. Anyway, to each their own. You are entitled to your opinion.

[Starnique]

You know what? I agreed with Michelle and I still do but then I remembered I'm a Dancer and I was like, okay...but if I was married or in a relationship with someone I love and valued their opinion then I wouldn't do it. Just out of respect I wouldn't just flash my boobs. But the truth is I have see some wild shit and women will be surprised what their men will pay for.

[horndog]

Let me just set the record straight since most of you have taken my wife's behavior so much further than what is the reality. first of all its a pretty rare occurrence and only at certain bar we frequent with a Mardi Gras flavor to it. Its not like she would just whip out the boobs at any bar on any corner. We have a blast when we go there and she enjoys the occasional flash. Its all good and I was never suggesting that the Op's woman should do the same. Its a blast for us but others may not enjoy it and that's fine, I have no problem with that.

[namemyname]

Funny stuff. I bet your man would wait in line to buy my wife a drink. Pity? hahaha. Anyway, to each their own. You are entitled to your opinion.

Oh, I doubt that. lol

But, she does seem like the type who likes a line of men waiting to do something to her.

Truth - healthy men do NOT envy the guy whose wife is acting like a whore. I know you guys are swingers and into all that, but ask 10 guys on the street if they would be thrilled to have their wife showing her boobs for drinks, and I'm sure 10 will say that's not anyone they would keep around. And yes, guys have pity for the dude who's the cuckold, so if you like to stand by while your wife is flashing her tits for free drinks and think that's great and enviable, you really need to get a clue, because NO guy wishes he were you, or would want any part of your wife, besides as a cum dump they can talk about in a locker room.

[horndog]

Oh, I doubt that. lol

But, she does seem like the type who likes a line of men waiting to do something to her.

Truth - healthy men do NOT envy the guy whose wife is acting like a whore. I know you guys are swingers and into all that, but ask 10 guys on the street if they would be thrilled to have their wife showing her boobs for drinks, and I'm sure 10 will say that's not anyone they would keep around. And yes, guys have pity for the dude who's the cuckold, so if you like to stand by while your wife is flashing her tits for free drinks and think that's great and enviable, you really need to get a clue, because NO guy wishes he were you, or would want any part of your wife, besides as a cum dump they can talk about in a locker room.

You are a trip. Think what you want. I know who my wife is and we have a great monogamous relationship of 22 years. yes, we did have a one time swap with another close couple. The rest of your comments are just plain bizzare. You might want to seek meds.

[LifeInflux]

You are a trip. Think what you want. I know who my wife is and we have a great monogamous relationship of 22 years. yes, we did have a one time swap with another close couple. The rest of your comments are just plain bizzare. You might want to seek meds.

In her defense, you do make it sound often times like your wife is kind of slutty and that you're okay with it. To each their own and all that... I'm not into sharing the girl I love... I find it contradictory. Others may feel different - especially if the relationship tends to be based more on the physical aspect and less on an emotional level.


At the end of the day we don't know your wife or your relationship other than from what you tell us, and if this is the perception a few people get from your posts, then maybe you aren't telling us the right things.

[horndog]

In her defense, you do make it sound often times like your wife is kind of slutty and that you're okay with it. To each their own and all that... I'm not into sharing the girl I love... I find it contradictory. Others may feel different - especially if the relationship tends to be based more on the physical aspect and less on an emotional level.


At the end of the day we don't know your wife or your relationship other than from what you tell us, and if this is the perception a few people get from your posts, then maybe you aren't telling us the right things.

I can appreciate your stance but the reality is she is a good woman and I really could care less what others think. We are happy and that is all that matters at the end of the day.

[LifeInflux]

I can appreciate your stance but the reality is she is a good woman and I really could care less what others think. We are happy and that is all that matters at the end of the day.

You have nothing to prove to me, I don't care either way... I'm not paying for your wifes drinks lol. Just giving you some perspective on why you may think everyone has the "wrong impression" about your relationship -- if you didn't already know.

[Valixy]

This is completely off topic, but...There's this annual summer fiesta, San Fermin in Spain, when some bulls are released and men start running after them and vice versa. Barbaric really! There are of course animal rights activists fighting to stop this fiesta and more severe animal cruelty acts and hopefully that will happen sometime soon. Anyway, part of the news this year, besides the regular thing that a few guys got seriously hurt, was that there are tourist women that like climbing on their partners' shoulders and taking their blouses and bras off, surrounded by the enthusiastic crowd. While a few denounced being harassed because some of the guys weren't pleased with just looking, most couples were safe enough and seemed to have a lot of fun doing that…I suppose that what I am trying to say is that to each his own as long as people are happy and don’t have a problem with it.

[Maple1714]

This is completely off topic, but...There's this annual summer fiesta, San Fermin in Spain, when some bulls are released and men start running after them and vice versa. Barbaric really! There are of course animal activists fighting to stop this fiesta and more severe animal cruelty acts and hopefully that will happen sometime soon. Anyway, part of the news this year, besides the regular thing that a few guys got seriously hurt, was that there are tourist women that like climbing on their partners' shoulders and taking their blouses and bras off, surrounded by the enthusiastic crowd. While a few denounced being harassed because some of the guys weren't pleased with just looking, most couples were safe enough and seemed to have a lot of fun doing that…I suppose that I am trying to say that to each his own as long as they are happy and don’t have a problem with it.

I agree, who cares what anyone else thinks as long as you are happy with what you are doing...seriously. Other peoples opinions do not matter.

My college boyfriend participated in the running of the bullls thing when he visited Spain many years ago! Looks like a wild time. He was later searching the internet and found a picture of himself in the middle of it running down the street! Pretty cool.

[horndog]

This is completely off topic, but...There's this annual summer fiesta, San Fermin in Spain, when some bulls are released and men start running after them and vice versa. Barbaric really! There are of course animal activists fighting to stop this fiesta and more severe animal cruelty acts and hopefully that will happen sometime soon. Anyway, part of the news this year, besides the regular thing that a few guys got seriously hurt, was that there are tourist women that like climbing on their partners' shoulders and taking their blouses and bras off, surrounded by the enthusiastic crowd. While a few denounced being harassed because some of the guys weren't pleased with just looking, most couples were safe enough and seemed to have a lot of fun doing that…I suppose that what I am trying to say that to each his own as long as they are happy and don’t have a problem with it.

Yup, its all about having fun. Nothing more.

[namemyname]

You are a trip. Think what you want. I know who my wife is and we have a great monogamous relationship of 22 years. yes, we did have a one time swap with another close couple. The rest of your comments are just plain bizzare. You might want to seek meds.

No, they're truth.

You like to shoot off your mouth about your swinging and your wife flashing her tits to get free drinks (gross), and as soon as you get called on it, you're suddenly trying to make her out like the virgin mary.

Good on you that you're happy, but be real. This is something I expect from kids in high school or college, and even then, likely regretted. Married for 22 years, so I assume you're in your 40s? Seeing some 40-year old drunk broad whipping out a tit to any guy who buys her a drink is pitiful. Do either of you have any self-respect? And no, again, the guys don't "love it". They think your wife is a shameless whore, and you have no backbone to tolerate this.

I seriously hope you don't have kids, and do this anywhere you might run into your kids classmates parents. Fine if the two of you want to act like trash, but I hope you consider your kids in your actions.

[namemyname]

You have nothing to prove to me, I don't care either way... I'm not paying for your wifes drinks lol. Just giving you some perspective on why you may think everyone has the "wrong impression" about your relationship -- if you didn't already know.

Is that because you didn't want to wait in the line?