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Thread: What would you do if a guy randomly said that he likes you out of the blue?

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    What would you do if a guy randomly said that he likes you out of the blue?

    I really like this girl and I want to tell her I like her. I'm wondering how she might feel based on other girls opinions. This is from a guy who had asked out a girl who lied about wanting to go out with me.

    So, If a guy who had asked out a girl and was lied to by her told you that he liked you... What would you say/do?
    Depending on if you had feelings for them or if you just see them as a friend?

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    Wait, is she the same girl that lied to you? What was the lie? I don't understand what this has to do with the fact that you want to tell a girl that you like her (unless it's the same girl).

    If a guy told me he liked me, there would be two options:
    a) I like him back. If I'm single, I'll go on a date with him.
    b) I don't like him back. I tell him I'm not interested.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    Wait, is she the same girl that lied to you? What was the lie? I don't understand what this has to do with the fact that you want to tell a girl that you like her (unless it's the same girl).

    If a guy told me he liked me, there would be two options:
    a) I like him back. If I'm single, I'll go on a date with him.
    b) I don't like him back. I tell him I'm not interested.
    They are both different girls. The first girl lied about wanting to go out with me after I asked her out.

    The new girl I like has been showing these signs of liking me (in my other thread)

    I like this girl (girl 2) who had found out I had asked out a girl (girl 1). The girl I had asked out (girl 1) lied about wanting to go out with me and the girl I like now (girl 2) doesn't know. But just recently, when walking out from my classroom after class, the girl I like now (girl 2) was with her friend and was walking in the direction I had to walk, when they noticed I was walking the same direction, they walked the other way.

    Also, just today I saw the girl I like now (girl 2) speaking to the guy she went to the school ball with.

    Another day, there was a school lecture and the girl I like now (girl 2) asked where the lecture was and I wanted to know which subject lecture she was going to go to. I knew the answer to it and she said the direct opposite. I then spoke to a few boys about the sport which I like and the girl I like also likes. The boys stopped talking and the girl I like (girl 2) said "Don't Stop, I'm listening" and I spoke to her about getting the tickets to the match and a boy told me that the girl I like always talks about the sport and that I should invite her to the match. She just smiled and didn't say anything. After, she asked me what the lecture was about and said she was going to the one I was going to. On the way to the lecture she was walking with me. When we reached the venue for the lecture, she sat down on a stair and crossed her legs with the leg crossed over facing me. At this time she was speaking about her project marks and then about watching a few boys play rugby at our school carnival after she played her sport.

    Girl 2 has shown signs which to me are signs of liking me which are below...

    SIGNS TO ME SHE LIKES ME

    I had asked out a girl who said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me. The girl I like now was surprised that I asked out a girl saying that I have a girlfriend but now, she doesn't know that the girl I asked out lied. On the same day a boy told me that the girl I asked out was lying about wanting to go out with me. This girl (who I like now) said "Talk to her and find out if she has mutual feeling for you and if she actually wants to go out with you. Just to make sure. She is a nice girl, I don't think she will be lying." saying it with a sad face and tone. On the same day, she said she wondered why guys don't ask her out. (She said this when I was close to her but not directly to me).

    The day or two after finding out I asked out a girl, she was talking about our essay project to me and another girl. She read one of the paragraphs and she looked at the girl 3-4 times and to me 7-8 times when reading it. I told her that I thought it was a good paragraph and she was smiling a bit.

    Before she found out I asked out a girl she showed signs that to me told me she likes me...

    When talking to me about my schoolwork, she touched/tapped my arm and later my back (this has never happened with other girls). Also her hand was close to mine and she didn't move her hand away and when passing pencils and pens to each other, she always made a way for me to touch her hand or her to touch my hand.

    She talks to me and asks questions about my life (If I have brother or sisters) and random questions (If I can do cross eyes, How many children I want when older, about the sport we both like)

    She looks at me a lot. She also leans backwards towards me when sitting in class (she sits in front of me).

    We were talking in a group and I did something and she said we have to have dinner before we go there and was laughing/smiling

    she yelled my name out in a public place (school excursion) when she was with her girl friends and also in class (when in class she yelled my name out a lot throughout the lesson). It was also someones birthday on that same day as the excursion and her friend offered me some cake and she said that she made it.

    She also enjoys the sport I like and the girl I asked out doesn’t really talk about the sport. (Seems to have things in common to me)

    One of her good girl friends stare/look at me in one of the classes I'm in with her. When I walked passed her group, one of her girl friends looked at me as I walked passed.

    I have been having exams and every time I see her after the exam she looks/stares at me. One time she was in her group and I saw her looking at me but I walked passed her. After I saw her with another guy (might has kissed on the cheek) (this guy has a girlfriend) and she looked at me. The next day of exams, she walked passed where I was standing and her eyes seemed to follow where I was standing.

    When in class one time, I sat next to this girl and randomly she asked how many kids I would like to have when older. I said how many my partner wants to have but below a certain amount. Without me asking her she just randomly said she wanted a certain amount of children. She was sitting next to one of her girl friends in the class and she didn't really notice anything happen and the question wasn't directed to her.

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    Eh, I still don't see how one thing relates to the other.

    Just ask Girl 2 out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    Eh, I still don't see how one thing relates to the other.

    Just ask Girl 2 out.
    I can't just ask a girl out. Its difficult for me to. I usually tell the girl I like her and a few days after I ask her out.

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    Ok, then do that.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    Ok, then do that.
    But I had asked out a girl who had said yes but lied about wanting to go out with me and this girl I like found out as it passed throughout my school. So, if I do something like this will I look desperate?

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    Do you have a date with the other girl (the one that lied), or not? If you don't, you are under no obligation to not ask anyone else out.

    Just do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by searock View Post
    Do you have a date with the other girl (the one that lied), or not? If you don't, you are under no obligation to not ask anyone else out.

    Just do it.
    When I tried organising a date for the date she said she was busy and told the teacher for me to move away from sitting next to her. This told me she was lying and that was it...I moved on and like the other girl.

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    Yeah... I get that part.

    Now you just have to talk to Girl 2, tell her you like her and ask her out.

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